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"og:description": "Having had little luck in finding wife that would share interests, I was not lucky in combining my sexual desires with productive desires. I wanted to experience the happiness and pleasure because of realizing ambitious original ideas together, but I didn't find wife with same interests. Rather, I found girls more than happy to reproduce just biologically, without much other co-creative aspirations. In the evolution of life, sexual attraction had lead people to successful reproduction. Where this attraction was 'incorrect' (such as in the cases of homosexuality), the reproduction was not successful. However, these days productivity in terms of realizing …"
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Having had little luck in finding wife that would share interests, I was not lucky in combining my sexual desires with productive desires. I wanted to experience the happiness and pleasure because of realizing ambitious original ideas together, but I didn't find wife with same interests. Rather, I found girls more than happy to reproduce just biologically, without much other co-creative aspirations.
In the evolution of life, sexual attraction had lead people to successful reproduction. Where this attraction was 'incorrect' (such as in the cases of homosexuality), the reproduction was not successful. However, these days productivity in terms of realizing new ideas is of equal or greater importance than the productivity in terms of biological reproduction. Important ideas can improve our lives much more than common biological reproduction.
However, except for imagination, there is no readily available biological reward mechanism (such as orgasm), which would attract people to work together on those ideas and other types of products the way they work on bringing up children.
Considering the importance of realization of new ideas in the modern world, it could be reasonable to partly repurposed the mechanism of sexual attraction for successful production in other areas, not just the biological reproduction. For example, it could be acceptable for people to flirt, openly/directly exchange the excitement about each other's attractiveness while talking about the ideas that want to realize and the practical aspects of realizing it, each other's potential satisfaction about the possible impact, and the meaning of being coauthors together. For instance, such partners could say "It's so so, so sweet, and it's a big thing -- if this works out, the result will be significant, and I deeply meaningful, something what we'll cherish for long time to come." While working together on-line, using space sharing technology, the people could be treating each other as a significant other, by using the words and phrases that are normally restricted to lovers, and sometimes stimulating each other by mysteries of each other's minds, possibly exchanging virtual hugs and kisses, and showing care and responsibility. Realizing the creative ideas, the persons could be left with the feeling of kindness to each other, similar to the feeling having had brought up a kid.
To some people, this may seem to conflict with traditional single-partner relationships. However, there are reasons to believe that these kind of relationships could coexist peacefully with traditional relationships. One such reason is that it doesn't conflict with resources necessary to bring up a child (this is unlike the sexual unloyalty, which may result in a child conceived together with another party, and thus has a potential to deprive the original partner of the resources to bring up the child, which is probably why we tend to despise adultery). In the light that this new type of relationships do not strongly compete for resources, and has a potential to create achievements that will benefit everyone, could - on the contrary - be desired.
Today, the most realistic way how everyone can engage in such new kind of relationships, is by explaining it to everyone, -- friends, spouses, parents, etc., and let them know about the true nature of our new significant relationships.
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我在找到志趣相投的妻子方面运气不佳，将性欲与生育欲望相结合方面也不走运。我想体验因共同实现雄心勃勃的原始想法而带来的幸福和快乐，但我没有找到有相同兴趣的妻子。相反，我偶到过的女朋友们更乐于只在生物学上繁殖，而没有与我同样的愿望。
在生命的进化过程中，性的吸引力已经引导人们成功地进行繁殖。如果这种吸引是 "不正确的"（例如在同性恋的情况下），繁殖就不会成功。然而，如今在实现新思想方面的生产力与生物繁殖方面的生产力具有同等或更大的重要性。重要的想法比普通的生物繁殖更能改善我们的生活。
然而，除了想象力之外，没有现成的生物奖励机制（如性高潮）可以吸引人们像抚养孩子一样，共同研究这些想法和其他类型的产品。
考虑到在现代世界中实现新思想的重要性，将性吸引力机制部分重新用于其他领域的成功生产而不仅仅是生物繁殖可能是合理的。例如，人们可以接受调情，公开/直接交换对彼此吸引力的兴奋，同时谈论想要实现的想法和实现它的实际方面，彼此对可能影响的潜在满意度，以及一起成为共同作者的意义。例如，这样的合作伙伴可以说“太棒了，太甜蜜了，这是一件大事——如果成功，结果将是重大的，而且我深感有意义，这是我们将在未来很长一段时间内珍惜的东西。”在网上一起工作时，使用空间共享技术，人们可以把对方视为重要的另一半，使用通常仅限于恋人之间的单词和短语，有时还会通过彼此的心灵奥秘相互刺激，可能会交换虚拟的拥抱和亲吻，并表示关心和负责。实现创造性的想法，人们可以留下彼此的亲切感，类似于一起抚养孩子的感觉。
对一些人来说，这似乎与传统的单一伴侣关系相冲突。 然而，有理由相信这种关系可以与传统关系和平共处。 其中一个原因是，它与抚养孩子所需的资源不冲突（这与性不忠不同，性不忠可能导致与另一方共同孕育孩子，因此有可能剥夺原伴侣抚养孩子的资源，这可能是我们倾向于鄙视通奸的原因）。 鉴于这种新型关系没有强烈的资源竞争，相反，且有可能创造使所有人受益的成就，可能是人们所希望的。
今天，每个人如何参与这种新型关系的最现实的方式是向所有人——朋友、配偶、父母等解释，让他们了解我们新的重要关系的真实性质。
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